Rule #3

So, the Valentine's holiday is over, but the romance doesn't have to be. One of the most important things about the atmosphere of any home is its lighting. Candles supply light and romance. The soft glow and flickering flame offer warmth and set the mood for love. Haven't you ever noticed that there always candles on the center of an elegnatly set dinner table? That is because their glow is mesmerizing.

I have a few rules about candles, but they can certainly be broken to suit your own personal taste. Personally, I am not a huge fan of scented candles, but every once in a while I do appreciate a delicate scent. My favorite scented candle is a lemon citrus scented pot from Anthropologie (one of my favorite stores). I lit it in the kitchen when we were having some issues with the garbage disposal. It was light and airy, but also very effective. So, I guess my rule with scented candles would have to be keep the scent delicate. Candles that are too strong can be offensive and overpowering. Also, this is very important, never ever have scented candles around a meal. Our sense of taste greatly relies upon our sense of smell and we do not want the taste of our food and the smell of the candle to muddle and cause some very unfortunate flavors.

I love small glass jars filled with candles (glass votives) because they are completely re-usable and also you can get them unscented. My mom is especially allergic to almost anything scented, so these are a must-have in her house. When the inner candle burns down, just put in a votive and you are all good to go.

I love to light candles for any occassion, it is very relaxing and romantic, but also gives you just the right amount of light. Here is a small tip...ever burn down a galss candle to the point it can't be used, but there is wax residue in the glass? Well, all you have to do is put it in the freezer for a little bit. The cold makes the wax contract and you can take it out, bang the bottom of the glass and out comes the wax. Just add a votive and use again.